The science regarding sexual diseases and sexual practices has been compromised. Many will not publish what they have discovered because they’ll be shouted down, cancelled, or even lose their jobs if they do.*
Pretending that there are not far higher rates of disease among those who engage in certain practices is not loving. It’s weak, cowardly, and cruel.
When you tell the truth about harmful behaviour it will prevent some from engaging in that behaviour and cause others to repent. Telling the truth in a gentle and compassionate way is the loving thing to do. If you really do love people no matter what they identify as, let those who discover things you don’t like publish their results.
The question was asked:
“Is it immoral for you to have sex with a frozen chicken?”
Should you do something if it's legal and you want to do it, and you have the means and the time to do it? Not necessarily.
Some sexual behaviour harms a person psychologically, even when they choose to engage in that activity. See the YouTube video "100 MEN?! The SICKNESS of OnlyFans" by Ben Shapiro.
"Love is an involuntary response to virtue."
But what if you fall in love with someone who lacks virtue? Did they lie to you? Did you know the truth about them before falling in love? If you did it says something about your own values and your wisdom.
The truth is that a good man is more likely to attract a good woman than a bad man is, and a good woman is more likely to attract a good man than a bad woman is.
If the statistics in that video are accurate, what should we do?
Well, it might be a good idea to wait just a little bit longer before getting married. How many people would have not got married if they waited just another 6 months? Time is our friend (though it can feel like an enemy). Time will reveal things about the person you're fond of that nothing else can. Given time, their true colours will come out.
It might be a good idea to also not go out of your way to talk to someone you're attracted to. (Attraction to a person can grow stronger even without talking to them. And it may lead to love.)
A wise woman once said, "Character is observable from a distance." If a man or woman is a good person, you should be able to pick that up from how they talk with others and how they deal with them. If a man treats other women badly, chances are he will treat you badly. If he is dishonest with others, it will only be a matter of time before he is dishonest with you. It might seem like you're shooting yourself in the foot by not going out of your way to talk to him or her, but is it really honest to go out of your way to talk with a stranger of the opposite sex if your heart is not set on them? A lot of hearts have been broken that way. Guard your heart. Watch and wait. When a man's heart is set on a lady, then he will do all he can to win her. No games, no lies. He's in. Such a man will not shy from marriage; it's the thing he seeks. Why? Because he loves her.
*Unfortunately, this is not the only area of scientific enquiry which has been compromised. If you publish results which don’t fit with the narrative, you won’t get your funding for years to come. Note: For this reason alone a strong case could be made for no government funding for universities. See here.